Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Anonymous said: What's the best way to get an orgasm when you're a girl??

Anonymous said: I just recently started masturbating and I'm a virgin i don't really know what I'm doing and I'm a little nervous about inserting my finger ( I don't even know where to insert it!) what should I do

First things first, hop up on your bathroom counter and take a nice long look in the mirror!

Anonymous said: when u have sex and the guy's penis is maybe 6-7 inches or so would it hit your cervix because I can feel mine with a Finger! What happens if it does? Will it hurt? Will that be as far as he can go in?

Don’t worry — your vagina takes care of you, just like you take care of it. When aroused, your vagina can elongate to up to twice its size! So make sure you and your partner engage in plenty of foreplay so that you and your vagina are super aroused and elongated to accommodate those six or seven inches.

Anonymous said: I need help! I bought a vibrator and it feels great when I use it, but I can never climax. I have to get myself off while pillow humping and it isn't very satisfying. Am I doing something wrong? I'm very frustrated.

Try not to be frustrated! That in and of itself can be the problem. (Easier said than done, of course.) Maybe try things the opposite way…pillow hump to get started and then switch to your vibrator to try to finish.

Anonymous said: I masturbate semi often, but for some reason I cant fit more than one finger in my vagina. Do you have any idea what it is? I'm not nervous, I just can't seem to fit two fingers in.

Have you tried adding some lube?

Anonymous said: I'm really confused as to if I have ever had an orgasm. I'm a virgin, but discovered pillow humping and grinding to my blankets a while ago, so I do masturbate. But it's never "mind blowing" or "body shaking" at the end. It does feel good, obviously. But I'm not sure if what I feel is an orgasm. What do you think? Thank you for all your help!

It’s hard for me to judge, because you are the only one feeling these things!  Movies paint an unrealistic expectation of what orgasms are, unfortunately. And all orgasms are different! Some are big and bold, others are timid and shy. Generally, it’s a build up and release of pressure and some contractions of the vagina muscles along with “waves of pleasure” through the rest of the body. But what does that all really mean?? How can we really describe it?? It’s up for each individual person to define and identify their own orgasms.

So if you feel like you’ve experienced something in that vain, vary the intensity of your masturbating techniques to start adjusting the volume of your orgasms!

Anonymous said: So I've been masturbating for just over a year now, and almost every time I do it I get awful leg cramps. I haven't found anything that helps (pillows, different positions, etc.), and I was wondering if you'd have any suggestions?

Short of preemptively wrapping your legs in heat compresses, I’m not sure! Anyone have any ideas?

Anonymous said: How to get a multi orgasm

Just keep going! 

Anonymous said: Okay.. I want to get rid of my public hair, but it seems so complicated to do.. Because I'm considering using a hair removal cream, but then I've read that you can get chemical burns.. And if you shave, you can cut yourself or the hair might start growing in the wrong way.. So I don't know what to use, do you have any advice? What's easiest and best to use?

Of course, you should first ask yourself why you want to remove your pubic hair in the first place! If you feel it’s on your own terms and not because of pressure from any other source (including sex partners) then let’s get started!

Don’t use any cream type thing unless it specifically says it’s for your “bikini area”, or a similar euphemism. Shaving can be time consuming, but it’s the easiest method. Do a Google search for some good tips, and set aside a good chunk of time to do it. 

If your super serious about going smooth down there,  your best bet would be going to a wax salon. You’ll get the smoothest and longest lasting results, and the money will be worth it. 

Happy hair removing!