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Hello, Im browsing your blog for a while now and compared to the pictures of vulvas, mine is just a pile of lumps... it seems so deformed and the ones on the pictures look so... right and clean. Whats wrong with me...?
There is literally nothing wrong with you! Vulvas are like snowflakes, each one is different! :)
Hi I just wanted to say that after going through your blog for an hour, I was really motivated to ya know, feel good. And I've always had problems with orgasming, I've never orgasmed and I usually just stop midway but Last night I almost did, and you really motivated me so I just wanna say thank you, to the closest I've ever gotten to an orgasm. :*
And as it turns out, its size matters — a new study has found that in women who have orgasm problems, the clitoris is smaller, and located farther from the vagina. Comparing the two groups of women, the researchers found that the direct distance between the clitoris and the vagina (as measured by a line running straight through the body) was 5 to 6 millimeters longer on average in the group of women with orgasm problems. There’s a C spot — the clitoris,” said study researcher Dr. Susan Oakley, an OBGYN at Good Samaritan Hospital in Cincinnati, Ohio. It is difficult to know whether it is the anatomy of the clitoris that influences orgasm, or having more orgasms changes the anatomy, Oakley said.
To all the anons freaking out over masturbating too much- I don't really count, but I know I've masturbated at least eleven times in a row, and I'm perfectly healthy (at least sexually)! power of multiple orgasms! ;)
Okay so here's the thing, my boyfriend really wants me to give him a blowjob & I'm up for doing it for him, so i think that if i do that for him he can you know, eat me out but i don't shave, i trim, but i just don't want to shave. but it scares me because i don't know if he would prefer me to shave, so what should i do? i feel like i have to shave but i don't think i really want to.
If your boyfriend doesn’t want to eat you out because you don’t shave, dump him! (Just kidding…but not really)
Don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with, especially changing a part of yourself to fit his expectations. Value yourself enough to stick to what you believe in! <3
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Hi there! Last night I took a bath and decided to use the faucet method for masturbation. It didn't really do anything for me except now my vagina feels dry and I'm a little uncomfortable. Could it be because I took a bubble bath?
Possibly! Sometimes the amount of water can affect your pH levels of your vagina but I’m sure it’s nothing major to worry about
Uhh I masturbated six times today, aren't I addicted and need to stop?
Listen, if you’re conducting your life normally but masturbating a lot, no prob.
If you failed a pop quiz because you didn’t do the reading because you were masturbating, you need to work on your time management skills.
If you’ve missed a week work, your dog died because you haven’t been feeding it, and you can’t remember the last time you went outside because were masturbating…then maybe you’re addicted to masturbating and need to stop.
I'm a female of 15 years old, and physically mature. I'm asexual, but I've read that despite one's lack of sexuality, masturbation can still feel nice. It doesn't for me though? It has the same feeling as if I were to put my fingers in my mouth. I don't understand? And I've gotten suggestions just to experiment, but I've done that, too?
Some people like chocolate, some people don’t. Some people like to masturbate, some people don’t. If you tried it and it didn’t do anything for you, perhaps that is that. But if you’re interested in continuing to experiment, remember that there’s more to masturbating than just sticking your hand down your pants.
If the interest in masturbating is for you motivated by self-care rather than sexual gratification, why not start with a nice bath, then reading a book or watching a movie you enjoy, then laying on your bed and thinking nice thoughts and letting your hands wander your body until they make their way ~down there~.
Is this normal or weird? I'm scared of looking at my vulva. There's nothing wrong with it though. My vulva is clean but I don't know what makes me scared. There's a bit hair down there but I'm not scared of that. I tried looking at my vulva with a mirror but I backed out. What is wrong with me?
Unfortunately, I’d say that this is more normal than weird. This question makes me sad, but I also understand where this person is coming from, because I remember feeling my heart race and my tummy turn before I looked at my vulva for the first time.
More than just being a piece of our body on the same level as an arm or an ear, our vulvas represent a whole side of ourselves that we’re taught to be frightened and ashamed of: our sexuality.
It takes a lot of courage to own our sexuality; and by that, I mean to possess the self-knowledge about our sexual orientation, preferences, and desires, and also, the power to claim sexual pleasure independently and proudly.
So, I think it’s normal to be nervous of looking at your vulva. But it will bring you a lot of power, joy, and comfort.
I'm 16 and I masturbate often by manual stim - about once every 1-2 days. The thing about it is that I've always read that female orgasms involve sweating, leg shaking, increased heartbeat and moaning/screaming, but when I do it, none of that ever happens. I have a pretty strong, nice feeling but it's never strong enough to make me moan and it's not the mind-blowing fireworks I want. Am I doing it wrong?
You’re not doing it wrong! Everybody is different, every body is different, ya know? You read and see women depicted orgasming like that because, well, it would make for a boring ~climax~ in a book for a movie for her to just smile and say, “That was nice!” before rolling over and going to sleep.
So if you don’t feel naturally inclined to thrash around and scream, that’s just the way you are! And, unsurprisingly, that’s probably the way we all are. If you’re looking to increase the strength of your orgasms, forgetting about the reactions to them, try a new technique, new porn, or a new toy!
right so I have a little problem! I'm 16 and I started trying to masturbate when i was 15 but the thing is when I touch my clit I feel nothing it's like touching any other body part you know? Even when I'm really really horny. I literally tried EVERYTHING! Also, shouldn't my clit swell a little bit when I'm aroused? because mine doesn't and it's really really small. I really hope you can give me some advice because it's really starting to bother me :(
right, I think you should start by taking a looksy down there with a mirror to make sure that you’re touching your clit in the first place! If you’ve never really looked, it can be hard to tell just be touch what’s-what.
Second, try getting a vibrator (or it online — discreet shipping!) and seeing if adding a little battery fueled power down there will wake your clit up.