Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Anonymous said: So I've been masturbating for just over a year now, and almost every time I do it I get awful leg cramps. I haven't found anything that helps (pillows, different positions, etc.), and I was wondering if you'd have any suggestions?

Short of preemptively wrapping your legs in heat compresses, I’m not sure! Anyone have any ideas?

Anonymous said: How to get a multi orgasm

Just keep going! 

Anonymous said: Okay.. I want to get rid of my public hair, but it seems so complicated to do.. Because I'm considering using a hair removal cream, but then I've read that you can get chemical burns.. And if you shave, you can cut yourself or the hair might start growing in the wrong way.. So I don't know what to use, do you have any advice? What's easiest and best to use?

Of course, you should first ask yourself why you want to remove your pubic hair in the first place! If you feel it’s on your own terms and not because of pressure from any other source (including sex partners) then let’s get started!

Don’t use any cream type thing unless it specifically says it’s for your “bikini area”, or a similar euphemism. Shaving can be time consuming, but it’s the easiest method. Do a Google search for some good tips, and set aside a good chunk of time to do it. 

If your super serious about going smooth down there,  your best bet would be going to a wax salon. You’ll get the smoothest and longest lasting results, and the money will be worth it. 

Happy hair removing! 

Anonymous said: My hymen looks kind of meaty??? Sorry if thats a little gross, but theres a lot of thick skin? Idk how to describe it, and its so big it looks like its going to come out of my vagina? Is this normal?

Check out this blog to see the range of shapes labia come in! 

http://largelabiaproject.org

Anonymous said: I'm really horny when I'm on my period. How do I masturbate when I'm in the mood?

Hop in the bath! Easy clean up when your done! And if you want to go totally hands free, shower head/faucet :)

Anonymous said: I just started masturbating and the only way I orgasm is with a pillow any other ways that always work?

Of course! I would say you should start from the beginning (a very good place to start) and lay back and let your fingers explore.

Anonymous said: I just watched a sexy video and my pussy is throbbing and it hurts and feels like it needs to be touched so much why is it like that I can't masturbate it makes me too guilty how can I calm my pussy without getting off??

Anonymous said: How do you orgasm when having sex without using a vibrator on your clit?

Have you tried their fingers, your fingers, their tongue or, if you’re super flexible, your own tongue? Or, wait for it, have you tried using a vibrator on your clit during sex?

Anonymous said: Help, I think I am too tight. When I masturbate I can barely feel good by inserting a finger in and when I am on my period tampon hurt and I am sure I put it in right. What can I do to make "penetration" feel better. I am so scared that I am to tight that even the smallest dicks won't be able to get in. Please give me some advice??? PS love the blog

Don’t be scared! Time + lube = successful penetration.

Read further: http://fuckyeahfemalemasturbation.tumblr.com/tagged/penetration

Anonymous said: I can never orgasm through just penetration, I always have to have clitoral stimulation. This means I can never come when having sex. How can I change this and have a penetrative orgasm?

Yo, slow your roll! That’s not really true at all, because sex is a lot more than just some rando person repeatedly sticking an appendage in you until they cum!  Sex is an experience, and your clit has a ticket to the show, so make sure it gets its money’s worth! (That is a confusing metaphor and I’m not implying anyone involved in your sexual scenario is a prostitute. But I’m not thinking of another one.) Either you or your partner can touch your clit during penetration, or penetration doesn’t even have to happen at all. Cum the way you can, and insist upon it.