Wednesday, September 10, 2014

lesbeehive:

This link to The Trevor Helpline was on the suicideblonde tumblr for 5 years - now that it’s been deleted, the thousands of people who visited the mainpage aren’t seeing it anymore.  Considering today is Suicide Prevention Day, I thought it was fitting to share it again and reblog it as many times as I can. 

queerpaccino:

insuh:

S - body portrait
women with bodies like this should never be ashamed because there will always be men like me who love them

That’s not a good reason not to be ashamed. They should not be ashamed because bodies are diverse and natural and beautiful, not because they’re aesthetically pleasing or sexually arousing to someone else. Someone else appreciating your body can help you to appreciate it more yourself, but that shouldn’t be the end goal.
Unlearn beauty standards, learn to love your body with all its weird jiggly bits, bony bits, flabby bits, oddly-coloured bits, hairy bits, smooth bits, and skinny bits. Do it for yourself, not for someone else. All bodies are beautiful.

queerpaccino:

insuh:

S - body portrait

women with bodies like this should never be ashamed because there will always be men like me who love them

That’s not a good reason not to be ashamed. They should not be ashamed because bodies are diverse and natural and beautiful, not because they’re aesthetically pleasing or sexually arousing to someone else. Someone else appreciating your body can help you to appreciate it more yourself, but that shouldn’t be the end goal.

Unlearn beauty standards, learn to love your body with all its weird jiggly bits, bony bits, flabby bits, oddly-coloured bits, hairy bits, smooth bits, and skinny bits. Do it for yourself, not for someone else. All bodies are beautiful.

Anonymous said: Can a girl cum without the help of a guy?

bigmacmami:

Yeah wtf y’all ain’t that special

Anonymous said: Hi there! I always masturbate in the shower because I suspect that I might be a squirter so I'm scared to do it outside of the bathroom. How do I know if I'm a squirter? Can I overcome this? Thank you!

Just try it after your shower with the water off! If more liquid is project…it’s from you! 

Anonymous said: Is there something wrong with having a night to masturbate? I kinda want to do that sometime and I was wondering if there's a way to keep the desire going? Like every time I have one orgasm I'm satisfied but I want to masturbate for a while longer.

There’s nothing wrong with your night bleeding into the morning and taking a personal day from work to keep masturbating. 

Anonymous said: Hi. Thank you so much for this blog!! I can't talk to anyone else about this and it's hard to find answers on Google lol. I'm a virgin and I use a high power vibrating massager to masterbate. If I do it too much will it like desensitize me??

Nah, girl. It’s possible that your body will start to adjust to the intense vibrations and it will become more difficult for you to orgasm with lesser stimulation, but you won’t totally desensitize yourself. I would recommend turning off your massager and doing a nice hands only masturbation session from time to time, just to bring your body back to the basics. And I’m happy we can help :)

Anonymous said: Are there men that exist that don't mind public hair and size 20? Serious question from someone incredibly insecure :(

Indeed! Because of there pervasiveness of media and the images we see everyday of women’s bodies it can start to feel pretty bleak, but certainly there are men capable of free thought who aren’t brainwashed by our scary magazine culture. Good luck finding yours :)

Tuesday, September 9, 2014

dope---t said: I need help! I can only orgasm when I use my shower head (Vulva stimulation), but when I use it I have to lay on my back and hip thrust. But my legs go numb and hurt! I bought two bullet vibrators last night, but I can't orgasm still. How should i position them to make it feel like a shower head? I can't shower all the time! And roommates are getting suspicious. I put one on my clit (it feels great), but idk what to do on the other one with my vagina. I put it in and it didn't do anything. Help!

That does sound like a trying position. With one bullet on your clit, you can use the other just to massage your labia and the entrance to your vagina. I read once that if you plan on inserting a bullet vibrator, it’s a good idea to put it in a condom because you shouldn’t rely on pulling the cord to remove it, especially over time. Have fun!

Anonymous said: I know some play, tug, and twist on their nipples..but anytime I do it they are sooo sore the day after..with just a small of amount of touching them..I'm a bit scared I'll never be able to use them when masturbating because of the effects afterwards

Instead of pulling them, why not just try gently stroking them, or applying a little pressure or just a nice little squeeze. No need to be rough!