Friday, January 25, 2013

orgasmictipsforgirls:

My go-to masturbation technique for years was humping a tightly-wrapped towel. So, I thought I was only able to reach orgasm with tons of applied pressure. The orgasms themselves were very short and barely satisfying but, recently, your blog inspired me to try rubbing my clit whilst lying on my back instead.. and oh-my-gosh it took awhile but it left me twitching and out of breath! Any idea why the results were so different, even though both involve clit stimulation?”

Getting off different ways can feel different! You’re using a different amount of speed and pressure, stimulating different areas, tensing up different sets of muscles… all that stuff. That’s why most girls prefer some ways over others, and why trying new things is… interesting. Also, experimenting with a new way usually takes longer, and when the buildup lasts longer, the orgasm is usually more intense :)

On the other hand, it’s fine to like whatever you usually do better than the new thing you try:

“I found that I orgasm better by humping something because I have more control of my body as opposed to using a vibrator or a shower head. When I use either of the latter and get close to the climax my arms and legs and just everything kind of “spazz” and I feel like I can’t hold them still enough to reach orgasm.”

That’s totally a thing! There’s no reason it’s bad to prefer one method over others - whatever feels best is exactly what you should do. (You can totally hump a vibrator if you want to combine that ‘control of your body’ with nice buzzy feelings, though!)

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